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Hello! Welcome to Common Ground Ceremonies!

I am Reverend Samora Smith, a NYC-licensed Wedding Officiant and I am happy to congratulate you on your engagement.

You must be so excited (and possibly overwhelmed) by your upcoming wedding

…and if there’s one thing that we understand, it is that every couple wants and deserves their wedding day to be special, unique and of course, memorable. At Common Ground Ceremonies, we aim to please and want to make this experience as stress-free as possible. Whether you are planning a wedding with 200 guests at a beautiful New York venue or planning a simple, romantic Central Park Wedding with just the two of you, it is your special day! Whenever couples say, “we just want a ceremony that is short and sweet”, it is clear that they are really saying that they don’t want the traditionally long ceremony that puts their guests (or them) to sleep. Well, if this is similar to what you are thinking, then it sounds like we could be a match!
Your ceremony should reflect what makes you special and unique as a couple. Whether it is done through songs, poems, personal vows, it should be all about the two of you. When you choose a customized ceremony, there are so many ways that you can blend your story, your traditions, your beliefs and even your family members (pets, too!!). The possibilities are endless! So, if you prefer a simple, civil ceremony or an outrageous themed wedding, our vow to you is that we will guide you toward creating a heartfelt ceremony that will be remembered for years to come. We consider it a privilege to unite the two of you and your families in marriage and truly look forward to walking this path with you! Let’s Celebrate!
  


Gallery

Here are some of the wonderful couples that I have been blessed to marry and get to know during the most exciting time in their lives!

About

Many couples ask me how I chose to become a marriage officiant. Why Interfaith? Some people want to know how I feel about Marriage Equality. Here's my story:

To set up an appointment with me in person, or by phone or Skype, I can be reached at (646) 709-2090 or email me at rev.samora@gmail.com. I look forward to hearing from you so that we can begin creating the wedding of your dreams.

Rituals

Rituals and Unity Ceremonies are a wonderful way to symbolize the joining of two people in marriage. I have chosen an array of rituals (tradition and non-traditional) that you may want to include in your ceremony.

Sand Ceremony

Above: Sand Ceremony

Sand Ceremony

Ideal for outdoor weddings and also symbolizes the joining of the couple in their new family.  I often suggest this ritual when there are young children involved and the couple is looking for a ritual to involve the children (featured left).

Wine Box/Love Letter

The couple will write love letters to each other before the wedding which they will seal in an envelope.  They will choose their favorite bottle of wine or drink of choice and place these and any other memorabilia in the wine box.  During the wedding ceremony, the couple will seal the box and vow not to open the box until their anniversary of choice.  The only other time that the box can be unsealed is when they are having thoughts of separating at which time they will drink the wine and read the letters which will hopefully remind them why they fell in love and chose to be together in the first place.

Breaking of the Glass

Used in traditional Jewish weddings signifying the end of the ceremony and the time of celebration.

Wine Ceremony

The couple can either choose to pour one white glass and one red glass to create a blush that they will both drink from or there can be a pouring of one glass that they both will drink from.

Broom Jumping

An African and Celtic tradition which symbolizes the clearing away of negativity with a sweep of the broom and creating a threshold for the couple to cross over into their new life together.

Rose Ceremony

The couple can choose to present roses to the mothers/grandmothers as a way of showing appreciation for their support.  The roses can also be presented as the first gifts that the couple will give to each other.

Dove Release

Doves choose one partner for life and make this commitment until death.  It is said that if doves are seen on your wedding day, a happy home is assured.  Releasing doves signifies new beginnings.

Hand Wrapping Ceremony

The original meaning of “tying the knot”. A Celtic tradition where the hands are tied with cloth in the shape of the infinity symbol to symbolize the bringing together of the two hearts in a marriage of strength and unity forever.

Unity Candle

This ritual has long been used in Catholic weddings, but also holds a universal meaning.  It symbolizes the joining of the couple in marriage as well as the joining of their two original families.  The couple’s mothers can light their individual candles for them as a symbol to show that they are moving on from their family to create a new family together.

Butterfly Release

An American Indian Legend says that if you catch a butterfly and make a wish, when you release it your wish will come true.  Many people choose to have this ritual performed at the end of their wedding ceremony.

Services

No two weddings are alike. Some couples want to include multiple readings or rituals in their ceremony and some couples want to keep it "short and sweet". I will guide you every step of the way and for those of you who need some additional coordinating assistance on your special day, I offer this service as well.

 


See some of our services at Common Ground Ceremonies:

Elopement Ceremony
  • Starts at $350 – (Sat/Sun and holidays $50 additional)
  • Initial Consultation
  • Up to 10 Guests
  • Pre-written script of your choice (civil/spiritual) performed at your selected venue
  • Filing of License (legally required)
  • Witness can be provided if needed ($50 fee)
Simple Ceremony
  • Starts at $400 – (Sat/Sun and holidays $100 additional)
  • Initial Consultation
  • Unlimited Guests
  • Simple, customized ceremony (rituals not included) of your choice performed at your selected venue
  • Written copy of ceremony provided in advance for final approval
  • Arrival of Wedding Officiant 30 minutes prior to ceremony
  • Filing of License (legally required)
Fully Customized Ceremony
  • Starts at $600 – (Sat/Sun and holidays $100-200 additional)
  • Initial Consultation
  • Unlimited Guests
  • Customized Ceremony with Personalized script performed at your selected venue
  • Assistance with Personal Vows (optional)
  • Unlimited readings (suggestions offered if needed)
  • 1-2 Rituals (traditional, cultural or inspired)
  • Written copy of ceremony provided in advance for final approval
  • Arrival of Wedding Officiant one hour prior to ceremony
  • Filing of License (legally required)
  • A retainer of $200 is required to hold the date and time
  • Balance is due on day of ceremony
Additional 'Day Of' Coordinator Services
  • Starts at $500
  • Initial Consultation to explain services
  • Unlimited phone & email from date of contract
  • Contact all vendors listed on the contract to finalize details one week prior of ceremony
  • Organize wedding rehearsal (extra fee)
  • Develop Wedding Day Itinerary
  • Up to 4 hours of service on your wedding day
  • Visit ceremony site to make sure all vendors are on time and deliveries are received
  • Manage wedding vendors per your instructions
  • Manage wedding party
  • Manage vendor & decor setup at ceremony & reception sites
  • Transport, distribute, or arrange programs, table names, place cards, favors, etc.
  • Visit reception site to make sure all vendors are present and setup
  • Coordinate entertainment and all announcements/events during reception
  • Assist with anything else that should come up during the event
  • A retainer of $200 is required to hold the date and time
  • Balance is due on day of ceremony
Extra Services
  • Pre-Marital Counseling ($75-session) tax deductible
  • Live Instrumentalist (Guitar/Piano/Violin/Vocals) starting at $150/hr each
  • Microphone/Amplifier Setup- $100
  • Rehearsal Dinner – $100 and up
  • Travel -$50/per additional 20 miles
  • Park Permit plus administrative fee-$50

Marriage License Information:

How do I go about obtaining a marriage license in New York City? A New York State marriage license is valid for 60 days (except for active military personnel for whom the validity runs for 180 days) and can only be used in the State of New York.  All couples must wait a full 24 hours from the time the marriage license is issued before a marriage ceremony can be performed unless a judicial waiver is obtained.

You may also begin the application process online by going to the following link (valid for 21 days): http://www.cityclerk.nyc.gov/html/marriage/license.shtml

You must remember to bring a valid proof of I.D. (i.e., driver’s license, passport, etc.) and proof of divorce (if applicable). The fee for a Marriage License is $35 by credit card or money order payable to the City Clerk.

Park Permit Information:

Do I need to obtain a permit to have my wedding in a public park?  The only time that you will be required to have a permit for your event is when you will have more than 20 people.  It takes approximately 30 days to receive the permit, so plan in advance.  The permit can be obtained at the following link:  https://nyceventpermits.nyc.gov/Parks/

The fee for the Permit is $25.  If you prefer for Common Ground Ceremonies to obtain the permit for you, there will be an administrative fee of $25 applied.

Reviews

I truly love what I do. Each couple I marry remains close to my heart forever! Please enjoy some of the wonderful reviews that I have received from these loving couples.

Yury & Diana

Rev. Samora is a great officiant! Prior to our first meeting, she asked us to tell her about our relationship. We thought it was just for her records. When we had the meeting, Samora had already written out a draft of our entire ceremony using the information we gave her and brought another from a ceremony she did in the past (with client names removed, very professional) so that we could see that we had other options. We ended up using the one she wrote for us without changing a word. On the day of our wedding, Samora arrived promptly to take care of the necessary paperwork and went well beyond her duties by lending a hand when she saw that one was needed. If you are in need of an officiant, we highly recommend Rev. Samora!

Yury & Diana, 6/10/12

Jean-Paul & Sagina

On your special day, you’ll definitively want someone who will treat you as family… With Rev. Samora, you’ll get that treatment. She’s not just about the money, she takes time to talk to you and make your wedding about you, what you want, and how you want it. She’s very flexible… Thank you for taking your time out of your schedule to make our wedding day a special one!

Jean-Paul & Sagina, 4/14/12

Loren & Madan

Amazing Job! Over exceeded our expectations…..took extra care to make sure that all details were covered and made it very special and personalized for me and my know husband. We lived out of state and we had to do everything over the phone. Rev. Samora made herself available to us and always was reliable when we had a scheduled call. I think this says it all! My mother was more then pleased with the ceremony and she is truly a critic. I would highly recommend her. She is professional, nice and caring……you will see this for yourself if you use her. You will be very pleased.

Loren & Madan, 4/7/12

Stephen & Beau

Dearest Samora,

Where to begin? Obviously Spirit and the Law of Attraction “works” because you showed up in our life like an angel and guided us through what will without a doubt, be the most incredible event in our lives!. If the word “perfect” could fit an occasion, it was our wedding event! We treasure our moments with you for many reasons-not the least being the loving, authentic grace and spirit that you exude. Many have asked where we found you and it is quite difficult to explain how you appeared in our lives at the perfect time and place.

Again, words can hardly communicate our level of gratitude and love for your guidance and loving energy during the most important time in our lives.  Quite simply-we are in love with you!!

xoxo Stephen & Beau, 3/10/12

Kristen & Ruddy

Rev. Samora was FANTASTIC!! You can tell how much she loves doing what she does and cares for her clients. She has such a warm, sweet, loving vibe. I would HIGHLY recommend her to anyone. The ceremony was beautiful with her words and the guitar player. We had many complements from our guests on how unique and heart felt it was. My husband and I are very pleased with her services.

Kristen & Ruddy, 4/4/12

Natalia & Alex

Rev Samora could not have been a better pick for our wedding. From the first contact, she was so friendly yet professional. She was very responsive to ALL of our questions. She was always so responsible and kind and we are truly happy with the way she handled our wedding ceremony, she understood perfectly what we wanted and performed accordingly. Our wedding was even better than what we expected thanks to her. We would like to tell those who are planning their wedding, to contact her, because from that moment on you will be so glad you did.

Natalia & Alex, 11/05/11

Nicholas & Jami

Reverend Samora created an experience that was absolutely beautiful. She was able to provide us with not only a beautiful ceremony but the perfect location as well. Her kindness is so incredibly warm and her presence made the wedding excel to such great heights. Her professionalism and poise was much appreciated as it added an element to our special day that was truly sincere. My wife and I genuinely recommend Reverend Samora for all wedding occasions.

Nicholas & Jami, 1/2/12

Kathy & Me’chele

Rev Samora is the sweetest person my wife and I have ever met. We couldn’t have asked for more on our wedding day. She met every requirement we asked of her and more. She definitely has a passion for what she does and you can see it through the ceremony she conducted. She accepted our love and understood the bond we have… and interpreted into words. If you want to put your ceremony in capable hands Rev. Samora is the officiant for you.

Kathy & Me’chele, 11/11/11

Alex & Lindsey

Absolutely Wonderful! Very flexible, easy to work with, and always available. Samora is very-well spoken and professional. At our first meeting she provided us with great sample ceremonies and readings. We used those as a base, then she customized everything to fit us specifically. She arrived early to the ceremony and helped the Groom and Best Man prepare themselves and gave some tips. She spoke confidently, projected her voice, and annunciated clearly. Our guests complimented her afterwards on the beautiful ceremony, and they are still telling us – weeks later- that is was the best ceremony they have been to! You would be wise to choose her!

Alex & Lindsey, 7/24/11

Kelly & Eric

Reverend Samora was unforgettable! My Husband (fiance at the time) and I were planning a wedding in NY from Boston. This is no easy task, especially with less than three months before the big day. I searched all over the internet to try to find someone who would truly care about us and our big day. I found an officiant who was highly recommended, she unfortunately was not available on our date. She sent me a list of officiants that she recommended, one of which was Rev. Samora. I tried to contact a few of these individuals and I received a call back from a few, their main concern was money and how I could pay them.

Rev. Samora then returned my phone call and didn’t even mention payment until I brought it up. Her first concern was fitting our date into her schedule and wanting to meet us to plan our special day. She impressed me by her first phone call! My husband and I took a trip to NY and planned a date to meet with Rev. Samora. We had coffee at a cafe where Rev. Samora asked questions about us and our family and really got to know us so she could set up the best ceremony for our needs. She was very organized and had drafts of ideas that she had already come up with from our first phone call.

Rev. Samora was in-touch with us through out the next month before our wedding and made sure she had our vows and ceremony just the way we wanted them. She also was helpful with music for the ceremony and a unity ceremony for our children. On the big day Rev. Samora made our dream come true and announced us husband and wife after a beautiful ceremony she preformed. We will never forget her for this and this is why I would suggest her to any couple who is looking for an officiant in NY. Lastly, she fit into our very small budget.

Rev. Samora is truly in her profession for the couples and unlike other officiants I spoke with she made sure the most important thing for us was our day and not her bugging us for payment. I did not want to mention this but with people taking advantage of others now a days I wouldn’t want to see anybody be scammed. Picking Rev. Samora to officiate your special day will assure you that won’t happen.

Kelly & Eric, 9/4/11

Brian & Derek

Rev Samora helped make our nuptials more than we could have ever imagined. She was instrumental in coming up with the perfect words and poems for our ceremony. She defiantly has a vibe about her that is nothing short of magical and special. Thank you Rev Samora, our ceremony is a day we will never forget, Thank you for conducting the ceremony and helping us make it magical.

Sincerely Brian Kudler Derek Chow, 8/19/11

Cheryl & Sarah

Rev. Samora was amazing! We couldn’t have asked for a better person to wed us. She took us last minute, picked a stunning spot in Central Park, and prepared beautiful vows for us. We were honored to have her officiate our special day!

Cheryl & Sarah, 12/17/11

Rich & Vanessa

We had our wedding officiated by Samora on Dec. 31 2011 at the Ladies Pavilion in Central Park. She was professional, informative, suggsestive and accommodating to our needs. When we arrived in Central Park, the plan was to have the ceremony held at Ladies Pavilion, but we had contemplated other more secluded areas of the park. She was completely open to any an all ideas for locations, but we had found that the spot Samora chose was perfect even though there were some people around. I felt somewhat nervous before the ceremony but once it came time, thanks to Samora’s experience and composure, the feeling had disappeared. We also had a guitarist, Diana White, play some songs that we requested- that really helped to make the moment extra special. We wouldn’t have had the wedding any other way. We will remember the day for the rest of our lives.

Rich & Vanessa, 12/31/11

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Specials

Central Park is Beautiful all year round. Weekday weddings in the park are ideal because it is less crowded and there are more locations to choose from.

Central Park Weekday Wedding Special $500

Central Park Wedding

Includes:

  • Wedding Officiant and Guitarist
  • 1-2 Song choices (any style)
  • Simple ceremony (civil or spiritual in nature)
  • Filing of Marriage License (legally required)
  • Photographer available upon request

2013/14 Winter Wedding Discount

Winter Wedding


Includes:

  • $50 discount for weddings booked in Dec./Jan./Feb.
  • Holidays excluded from special rate
  • Please mention discount when booking
  • Not to be combined with other specials

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Rev. Samora Smith
Common Ground Ceremonies
711 East 11th Street
New York, NY 10009
646-709-2090
rev.samora@gmail.com

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